Wednesday, March 27, 2013

My thoughts

Alright, so apparently there was some vote yesterday in the Supreme Court which involved same-sex marriage. I read an article about the vote but it was really confusing and didn't help me understand. There was obviously a lot of stuff on facebook and twitter and equality and all that good stuff. It got me thinking about where I stood on the subject of same sex marriage.
THIS IS MY PERSONAL OPINION.  You don't have to agree with me and quite frankly I don't care whether you do or not. I have not formed my political opinion as far as which party I belong too, although I tend to agree with the Republican party.
I do not agree with the choice of people who choose to love or be with someone of the same sex. However, I do not believe it is my right, or anyone else's right, to take away another person's rights just because I don't agree with their choices.
I recognize that a counter argument could be made where someone would say- what about the choices of criminals or someone who chose to have an abortion. I think everyone agrees that a criminal deserves to have their rights taken away. And I also don't agree with abortions. I don't think people who have abortions or gay people are criminals though. But that's an entirely different topic....
This country was founded in order for people to have freedom. And everyone has certain unalienable rights. I think that telling someone who they can and cannot marry is taking away that person's rights, I also think it's discrimination and a form of socialism.
I don't know too much about science or history but I have been told that almost every civilization before us has had homosexuality as a common and widely accepted practice and that homosexuality is also found within nature.
Alright so then there is the other side, the Christian side. I was born and raised a Christian, I am active in my church, I love Jesus. Christians believe that homosexuality is a sin, and they can give you scripture to prove it.

Genesis 2:18-23

 "The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.19 Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the sky.He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals.But for Adam[f] no suitable helper was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs[g] and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib[h] he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.23 The man said,

“This is now bone of my bones
    and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called ‘woman,’
    for she was taken out of man.
24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh."



I believe that all men were created equal. I believe that all sin is equal. I believe that men and women were created to be together. There is a perfect design for men and women to unite (sexually) and I don't think God intended for people of the same sex to unite in the way that they do (sexually and emotionally). I believe that homosexuality is a sin, even if it has been practiced for thousands of years. But I don't believe that we should take the rights away from homosexuals. I sin every day. I have done more than one thing that is against the law, I just managed not to get caught. But my sin is forgiven, because Jesus loved me enough to die for my sin a long time ago. God also died for the homosexuals and he loves them. So even if I don't support the decision I will show them love because that's all I have been called to do. 

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Fun agenda

A lot of fun stuff is about to happen! Today is me and Seth's first official anniversary although we decided we have probably been together more like 2 1/2 years. We finally decided how to celebrate...zip lining! Although it will be too cold this weekend so we are going to go next weekend. This weekend we will be celebrating my mom's birthday and probably go out to dinner and a movie just the two of us :)
Something else fun that will be coming up, although I don't know when yet is a pedicure for Seth and I. We had a bet on when our youth pastor would get engaged, and I won so we get to go get pedicures and he has to pay!
THEN mom and I are going to North Carolina in April to see Bri and Hunter and Kaleb! THEN in May me and my parents and Seth and his mom are GOING TO NEW YORK!!!!!!!!! It's going to be sooooo much fun!

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Help Wanted

Our first anniversary is quickly approaching! I know it's weird. From one aspect it seems like we have been together forever because of the whole time we were "just friends" but from the other side I still remember exactly  what we were doing when he asked me out, and a lot of what has happened this year. I guess I can blog about that when our anniversary actually happens. We don't really know how to celebrate though. We don't want to spend too much money, although we have plans to go eat at the Sundial? but that's about it. I have looked up things to do for anniversaries and it's all wedding anniversaries. Any advice?

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Easier said than done

My life has been pretty crazy lately with so many changes going on. It's pretty stressful to say the least. I realized though that some of the changes had to be made because I was relying on my plans rather than God's plan for my life. He pretty much made it clear that certain things needed to wait or weren't going to happen. He also made some things clear that He did want to happen in my life. For instance, we were planning on doing the Color Run and were super excited about it. I also let it slip my mind the dates of the Color Run and my parents booked me a flight to go to North Carolina that weekend. So I was either going to be out $200 for the ticket if I did the Color Run or $40 if I went to North Carolina. I obviously chose North Carolina. And I sold my ticket for the Color Run in like five minutes, how cool is that?!?! God also showed his perfect timing by presenting me an opportunity this week. I have been thinking for a while about volunteering with the youth group at our church but haven't ever gotten around to actually asking about it or doing it. Last Monday our youth director asked me to chaperone on a trip to Camp Glisson this past weekend and my trip was completely free. I had such a great time with those kids. I am still learning about God's timing and trusting His plan instead of mine. It's easy to say but really hard to do.